Dear Annie: I wrote this letter because I was sad that my husband and I had left the city and moved to the countryside, and that we had lost so much of what had made our lives so enjoyable. It was from someone who said, “I’m doing it.” For me, it was a miserable 12 years. I used to see my daughter and grandson almost every day, but now I’m lucky if I see them at least once a year.
My physical and mental health deteriorated to the point where I no longer had the will to live.
My husband knows how I feel but chooses to ignore me. He is happy to be able to hunt and ride his four-wheeler here in the North Woods. I’m 80 years old and feel like I’m done, but I don’t want my life to end in misery. what can i do? –I’m disappointed again.
To those who are feeling sorry: First of all, I am sorry that you are feeling so alone and isolated. Please ask for help. you are not alone. If you think, “I don’t want to live,” visit this site. https://988lifeline.orgthis is a great resource.
Tell your husband and children how you feel. There is no reason you have to feel this alone and lonely. There is someone who loves you. Please extend your hand. There is help. If possible, seek the help of a professional therapist to deal with these feelings. Call your doctor to schedule a test and see if there are any exercises you can do to boost your physical and mental health.
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